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Around page 99 I bring out the ways that language of promise often became something different when mobilized to keep a daughter at home, as opposed to a son. As with everything in this difficult book, I move in two directions on page On the one hand, I recount a modal case where a daughter lost in court because she was doing just what daughters did, because she conformed to gender stereotypes. The promises made by father to daughter would be reconstructed after her father's death as empty talk.
On the other hand, I then qualify that overly simple picture by insisting on the ways needs sometimes overwhelmed conventional gendered categories and by reminding readers that parents often may have compensated daughters in other ways not revealed in the case transcripts. Posted by Marshal Zeringue at AM. Newer Post Older Post Home.
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There's a kind of -- the world of the son, it looks to the courts as if the son's made a bargain by the very fact of their presence. REHM The nature of these arguments gets very cold, gets very brutal. I do want I do think -- one of the things I noticed is that everybody, including the sons, lived in at least two moral worlds. So it was never easy. But that is they certainly -- when they came into court, they presented themselves as canny smart contractors who had made a bargain with their parents.
And now, the parents or the parents' estate had to pay up on this bargain so they could sound like tough negotiators. HARTOG But if you read the testimony, they're also sons who were doing for their parents what was done for them, who felt duty, who felt obligation, who felt love. And so you had love -- you have these sort of dueling normative worlds that played through the material all the time. And you're listening to "The Diane Rehm Show.
Who are you writing it for? Are you writing it as a cautionary tale?
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Are you writing it so people will understand the importance of direct statements, written wills? Why are you writing this? So this is probably not the answer you wanted, which is that I didn't have a normative or a moral lesson.
I fell -- for a variety of reasons, I found this body of case material, which were mind-bogglingly rich, about the details of family work and how people engaged with each other within families. They -- you have to have some property to appear. And then you have a page transcript of testimony about who did what work, how they did work, how they talked to each other about the work they did.
So I was just seduced by my sources and by the problem of how to write about that. That's probably not the answer -- I mean, so that -- I came to the normative how is -- what advice for the present very late. REHM All right. Let's open the phones now. We'll go first to Sally in Plainwell, Mich. Good morning, you're on the air. Thank you, Dr. Your book sounds wonderful. Excuse me. SALLY I'm going back to your target date and I'm old enough to remember in my childhood, people who were widows and widowers who were born before , as was my father.
My father was a country doctor. My grandfather was a country doctor. I grew up in Vermont in a small town. And I think that we need to look at how socially the world has changed for us. At the time that I was growing up, there were widows from the Civil War. There were widows from World War I. And there were residences specifically for these people. People cared for each other. And women didn't get out in the workforce. They stayed home. They raised families.
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It was kind of a given that an elderly parent would come live with that daughter in her home. On the other end of the spectrum, it's a brutal end, we've had mental hospitals and institutions where unfortunately a lot of innocent people went and spent the rest of their lives. And I just wanted to thank you for your book. I look forward to reading it.
And it's a different world today than it was then. You know, I agree with every -- your picture is accurate in many, many ways. The one thing that I did notice, and it may be an artifact of my material, is that older people didn't want to move in with younger people. They did sometimes and typically if there was no property, that was the central -- that was the usual option.
But the hope was that you would get somebody to move in with you rather than children to -- rather than having to move in with your children. REHM But just think about the architecture today, building on an in-law's room or something of that sort, totally different today.
It is really -- this, again, gets to sort of how does one compare the past and the present. And it's a very complicated question. Do join us. REHM And welcome back. We go right back to the phones to Birmingham, Ala.
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